Cease and Desist Letter for Harassment

A cease and desist letter for harassment puts the other person on written notice: the conduct stops now, or you escalate. For most people it is the single most effective step short of court, because it creates a dated paper trail and shows you are prepared to act.

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Sample letter

This is the exact structure your finished letter will follow, with placeholders where your facts go.

[Your Full Name] [Your Street Address] [City, State ZIP] [Date] [Recipient's Full Name] [Recipient's Street Address] [City, State ZIP] RE: Demand to Cease and Desist Harassment Dear [Recipient's Full Name]: This letter is a formal demand that you immediately cease and desist from the following conduct: repeated unwanted contact, including phone calls, text messages, and appearances at my home, that continues despite my requests that it stop For the record, the conduct includes the following: On [date], you called my phone [number] times after being asked to stop. On [date], you appeared outside my home and remained there for over an hour. This is not the first time I have raised this. I asked you directly on [date] and again in writing on [date] to stop contacting me. Despite that, the conduct has continued. Accordingly, I demand that you immediately stop all harassing conduct directed at me, including unwanted contact, messages, and appearances at my home or workplace. You must comply within 10 days of receiving this letter. If you do not comply, I am prepared to pursue every remedy available to me, which may include filing a civil action seeking damages and injunctive relief and reporting your conduct to the appropriate authorities. I would prefer to resolve this without involving the courts, and your prompt compliance will make that possible. This letter is not a complete statement of the facts or of my rights, all of which are expressly reserved. Please treat this matter with the seriousness it deserves. Sincerely, [Your Full Name]

What to include

A plain description of the harassing conduct, in your own words
Specific incidents with dates, as many as you can document
Any earlier requests to stop, and the fact that they were ignored
A clear demand to cease all contact, with a compliance deadline
A statement that you will pursue legal remedies if it continues

Common questions

Is a cease and desist letter for harassment legally binding?

The letter itself is not a court order, so it does not legally compel anyone. Its power is as formal notice: it documents the conduct, proves the person knew you wanted it to stop, and strengthens any later police report, restraining order petition, or lawsuit.

Should I send it by certified mail?

Yes. Certified mail with return receipt gives you proof of delivery, which matters if you later need to show a court that the person received your demand and kept going.

What if the harassment continues after the letter?

Keep documenting every incident. The letter plus a record of continued conduct is strong evidence for a restraining order or a civil claim. If you ever feel unsafe, contact the police first; a letter is for conduct, not emergencies.

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